Monday, December 12, 2022

St Jane Frances de Chantal - mystic of patience and suffering

Today we have the memorial of St Jane Frances de Chantal.  She is a wonderful saint that I wish was better known among people. 



She was a baroness, a married woman and a mother of 4. She was widowed at at the age is 28 and had to live with her father in law who did not treat her well. Her spiritual director was that gentle Doctor of the Church, St Francis de Sales and together they founded the Visitandine Order known as the Order of the Visitation of Holy Mary. This religious order was founded specifically for women who were older or later vocations and would not be accepted elsewhere or who could not live the stricter monastic life of other cloistered nuns. 

She struggled with dryness in her own prayer and had been through a period of depression after the death of her husband. But in her writings, she is very gentle and patient - just like her spiritual director St Frances de Sales. They both emphasised simplicity, humility, gentleness, accepting trials in a spirit of resignation to God’s Will rather than doing grabs penances or gestures. There’s a beautiful quality of strength and character to the spirituality of both these saints. 



She suffered a lot with depression and mental health after the death of her husband, mistreatment by her father in law, as well as during opposition she had establishing her religious order. Yet through all this she remained kind, gentle and charitable. Even as the religious superior she struggled with interior darkness, spiritual dryness and depression - yet with her nuns she was always patient and loving. 

You can get the sense from her quotes that she was a mystic herself. In spite of all her suffering, depression and struggles she had the fortitude to patiently continue in loving God as a wife, mother and nun. This patience comes out in her writings and prayers, and is something I find incredibly inspiring. 

Her emphasis on choosing to love God no matter what, desiring union with Him, prayer as an emptying of yourself and uniting yourself to God, our own nothingness, our need for faithfulness no matter what, and ultimately love for Jesus as the reason for everything - are all things we can learn from her and be inspired by her. Being a Catholic is hard, loving God and others is also hard, but we have the grace to strengthen us to do it. No matter what happens in life, so long as we remain faithful to whatever God has called us to do, if we remain patient, gentle and loving then God will be with us.  

“Yield yourself fully to God, and you will find out what form your martyrdom will take! Divine love takes its sword to the hidden recesses of our inmost soul and divides us from ourselves."
—St. Jane de Chantal














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